SYNOPSIS
Men
Don’t Cry: Prostate Cancer Stories
When Oscar®-winning
documentary filmmaker John Zaritsky started directing “Men
Don’t Cry: Prostate Cancer Stories,” he had no idea
he was about to become a statistic himself. But just as he was finishing
production, the fifty-nine year old director was diagnosed with prostate
cancer. John Zaritsky: “Nobody is happy to hear the news; but
in a way I felt lucky… I had spent a year watching other men cope
with prostate cancer. This film is not about me; it’s about three
men who have made the difficult decisions I’m now facing –
decisions about impotence, incontinence and even survival.”
Bob Hunter,
60, co-founder of Greenpeace, and now ecology specialist for Toronto
television station CITY-TV:
“I’m
not worried about dying. I take Woody Allen’s view: it’s
not death that worries me, it’s the way you go that’s the
scary part.”
Jake Unger,
62, truck driver:
“I
had to think about surgery. I’ve never been “carved on.”
I’ve never had surgery of any kind.”
Gary Marshall,
51, auto-body mechanic:
“Rust
is cancer of the car, you know; cut it, out it’s gone; and replace
it with new metal, you’re fine. In my case, well they’re
going to cut it out and it’s going to be gone.”
Each of
these three men decided to fight their cancer in a different way, but
they all knew the stakes were high.
Dr. Larry
Goldenberg, head of the Prostate Centre, Vancouver General Hospital:
“If
I were to come to you and say, ‘I can give you five more years
of life but you’re going to be impotent,’ okay, versus,
‘You’re not going to get those five years but you can be
potent ‘til the day you die.’ You have to make that decision.”
In North
America, prostate cancer is now the most commonly diagnosed cancer among
men, striking one in eight. Some experts estimate that the number of
men diagnosed will almost triple in the next twenty years and there
are no easy solutions in sight for this coming epidemic.
“Men
Don’t Cry: Prostate Cancer Stories” tells the personal
stories of three cancer victims through the eyes of another –
the filmmaker himself.